“Eventually you’ll end up where you need to be, with who you’re meant to be with, and doing what you should be doing. Patience is key.” Recently I saw this quote and it got me thinking. In this day and age we are all way too hard on ourselves and way too impatient. We worry … More Don’t Be So Hard On Yourself
Today is my Godson Aidan’s 6th Birthday and I can’t believe it’s come around so fast and he’s already another year older! I remember when he was born and thinking he would never grow big, he’ll always be small and now he’s done just that, along with getting his own little personality, and attitude at times. … More Happy Birthday Aidan/Being A God Parent
HI EVERYONE!!! Today it is my BIRTHDAYYYYY! and I thought what better way to kick off my celebrations than a blog about myself hahahaha wahooooo! I was born on October 1st, 1990 which makes me 2 bloody 6 today! I actually feel like a granny what the hell! This year i’m not even going out … More IT’S MY BIRTHDAY!
Starting uni can be a really scary thought, especially if you’re moving away from home for the first time.I know it’s that time of year where first years will be getting ready for the big day so I wanted to write a little something for you guys so you know EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY and … More Starting Uni
I’ve really enjoyed writing my blog for you guys and sharing my tips, thoughts and feelings! So I want to give you the chance to share yours! I have decided to introduce The Golden Speaker – a monthly blog dedicated to one of my readers! All you have to do is write about something you’re … More The Golden Speaker
Remove the negative whatever it may be. The negative people, thoughts and things will only hold you back from achieving so get rid. Live in the moment what happened yesterday, last month or an hour ago happened, so let it be. Move on from your thoughts and feelings of what happened before, . don’t allow … More 5 Steps to Focusing on Yourself
So I thought I would write about something today that’s been really bothering me lately and that is BITCHY girls! Instead of going off on one about situations i’ve been in that’s really got to me I feel like a more positive way to approach this would be to tell you girls the way I … More Girls, Girls, Girls
I am BIBLE the worst person in the entire world for picking friends! That is not to say I am completely friendless with no good, long standing friendship but I still believe honestly have the worst taste in friends or even the type that I attract into my life most of the time and that’s … More “Friends can break your heart too…”
So if you’ve been reading my posts you’re probably wondering why I chose the name hot gold mess.. Well, I thought quite long and hard about what I was gonna call my site. I didn’t want it to be something plain and boring like my name! (not that anyone who does that is plain and … More Hot Gold Mess
Recently, over the last few months I have had so many messages over social media regarding this topic; especially from young girls. It’s such a sad thing to see, when a young person, or any person for that matter, doesn’t feel confident or comfortable in their own skin. I’m not gonna sit here and pretend … More Confidence in yourself – The Basics
Ashleigh Murray 